BLOG 536 LOVE LANGUAGES

BLOG 536 LOVE LANGUAGES

Love is a feeling we get that can be related to emotions that make us excited, nervous, angry, upset, and/or passionate about something. How we give and receive love says a lot about our personality and character. The expression and acceptance of love affects our relationships. Understanding our love language helps us know and feel love as we desire. The five languages of love include acts of service, quality time, affirmation, physical touch, and receiving gifts. We can better speak from the heart if we can communicate our love language.

1.       Acts of service – These are things you can do for others and/or others can do for you to feel loved. These could be simple acts of doing the dishes or putting gas in the car. These are the “it’s the little things” that are noticed.

2.       Quality time – Some people need undivided attention. You or they want the other person’s focus. Quality is the factor that matters, not necessarily the quantity. This could be putting the cell phone aside and/or making eye contact.

3.       Affirmation - Some need to hear spoken words to feel love whether it be encouragement, text messages, praise, quotes, or appreciation. Pointing out something and acknowledgement are key.

4.       Physical touch – This could be holding hands, touching the persons arm, a little massage, and/or sex. It can be cuddling and being close.

5.       Receiving gifts – Some people appreciate the time and effort and thoughtfulness of gifts whether it be giving them or receiving them. Some people remember every little gift, and it isn’t always about the most expensive item. It’s knowing that the gift giver put their love into the gift.

Two people in a relationship don’t have to have the same love language, nor do we fall in love more with people who do have the same as ourselves. Some of us have never even thought about or identified our love language, but there are some questions we can ask ourselves to do so. To identify your love language, ask yourself these questions regarding how you feel in relationships. Do you feel more loved when your partner…..

1.       Run errands for you?

2.       Plans a trip for the two of you?

3.       Tells you I love you and says sweet things?

4.       Holds your hand when you walk places?

5.       Surprises you with a gift?

There are some perks to understanding love languages. By learning about other’s, you are being selfless. You are accepting someone else for what suits them best. You aren’t trying to convince someone that you love them when you know how to express it in the meaningful way they seek. You also grow as a person and in how you are a better half of a relationship when you learn about someone else, act accordingly, and go outside your comfort zone to do so. You could be nervous your gift isn’t enough to someone who finds love from receiving gifts. However, you grow, knowing that your gift is more than enough, and you can go buy it and give it without judgement. You can also become more intimate with the other person because you’re connected to them. You really get to know someone more than just surface level.

It’s important not to pressure someone to conform to love language or to try to convert them to the language you prefer. It’s good to recognize that your language and the other persons’ language may change, but the key is to communicate this and not expect the other part to automatically be aware of the change. Not all people are romantic and not all people believe in love being defined.

Healthy relationships thrive on putting into practice the love both parties need. Love almost requires a level of fulfillment, so it’s good to point out what fills your heart. It doesn’t have to be complex, rather, the languages are simple. What gets confusing is when you try to figure someone else out or think the other person should figure you out. Love feels amazing when we receive and give it so that the other person receives and feels it. It’s not to be taken for granted, so tools like putting love languages into play, can be successful acts from the heart that bond two people together.

BLOG 535 GARDENING

BLOG 535 GARDENING

Nature in the outdoors has many benefits to our minds, bodies, and souls. Gardening has become an increasingly popular activity due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Being kept from gatherings and finding a way to pass time made the concept of gardening a great option for many. Adults participated regularly, but it also became a popular learning activity for children. The process of planning, planting, and tending to a garden takes time, patience, and skill. From start to finish, seeing, smelling, and eating what has been planted, is rewarding and self-fulfilling.

Gardening is a healthy hobby for several reasons. Being outside boosts levels of vitamin D. Like the seeds being planted, we need sunshine to thrive. We need vitamin D to ward off dementia, depression, type 2 diabetes, and obesity. Of course, being weary of skin cancer is an important consideration. Sun protective measures sure be taken when being outside for any extended period of time. When enjoying vitamin D while gardening, mood can boost and anxiety or feelings of being sad/down can lower. The results of a nice garden improve the area. Places that were once neglected Seeing a nice environment can be mood boosting as well. The community has improved as well. Therefore, mental health can improve with gardening.

There can be a social component to gardening. Often groups and schools and families participate in gardening together to share the tasks and spend quality time together. The idea of teamwork is put into play. Positive relationships can develop, and friends can be made sharing a common interest. Expanding one’s social network can be a healthy way to feel belonging and the benefits of interpersonal relationships. Feeling connected to others improves confidence and self-esteem. It can also be empowering knowing that you are doing something good for the environment.

Being in the garden can be calming. Gardening is a way to reduce stress. It can help someone return to a positive state. For older people, it is a good way to keep cognitive function efficient. That act of gardening may not require memory, but the brain is working to get the activity done versus sedentary behavior. For children, they can learn the growing process and learn the importance of eating fresh fruits and vegetables, and even what spices can be used for. They learn that food doesn’t just appear in the store.

Gardening is a simple act that stimulates the mind and body to reap the benefits of nature. In a technology-filled world, getting away from screens and seeing real life and spending time in the real world, is what some people are missing out on more and more lately. Tending to a garden is a commitment of enjoyment and seeing what can become of once tiny seeds you planted in the ground. From flowers to tomatoes to trees, gardening is a great activity for people of all ages. 

BLOG 534 BLOOD CLOTS

BLOG 534 BLOOD CLOTS

Blood clots are a natural reaction our body performs to prevent too much blood loss when injury has occurred. They’re a clump of blood that that is almost solid and gel-like. The clots can occur in the lungs, heart, brain, arms, and/or legs. They can form without you even knowing it. Blood clots form in your veins and can dissolve on their own, but when they don’t, this could be a medical emergency. You cannot know if you have a blood clot without medical diagnosis.

Risk is higher for blood clots if you smoke, have cancer, are over age 65, are pregnant, are taking certain birth control pills, sit or lay for long periods of time such as being on bed rest or long flights, and having a family history of having blood clots.

There are symptoms associated with having a blood clot. They depend on the size and location of the clot. A blood clot in the heart is very serious. It is called coronary artery thrombosis. Fatty tissues in the heart’s artery form and this can cut off blood flow which can lead to a heart attack. The heart isn’t getting enough oxygen or the nutrients that are needed. Clots in the heart are less common but if they do occur you might get short of breath, feel chest pain, be sweating, feel nauseous, have a racing heart, feel lightheaded, and/or have pain in your neck, arm, back or even jaw. A blood clot in the brain is also very serious and can cause stroke. Oxygen won’t get to the brain (hypoxia) and brain tissue won’t survive. Symptoms can be slurred speech, paralysis, dizziness, confusion, vision problems, and seizures. These symptoms can come and go and even if they went away, you should get checked because it could have been a mini stroke called a transient ischemic attack.

A blood clot in the lungs is called a pulmonary embolism (PE). Symptoms can be chest pain, heart palpitations, coughing up blood, and feeling short of breath. A blood clot in the abdomen is a form of what is called, deep vein thrombosis (DVT). Symptoms can be bloody stools, pain in the abdomen, bloating, vomiting, and accumulation of fluid called ascites.  A blood clot in the arm or leg is also possible and can cause swelling, have a warm sensation, look reddish, and be painful/tender.

There are different types of clots. A venous clot, called a venous embolism, can build up over time. The most serious type is the DV. Symptoms would be swelling, tenderness, red color, and/or pain to the area. They can be caused by a broken bone, obesity, lack of movement, autoimmune disorders, genetic disorders, and certain medications.  An arterial clot, called an arterial embolism, occurs in an artery. The onset of symptoms will occur immediately and can be the area feeling cold, blisters on the skin in the area, shedding of the skin, paralysis in the area, and no pulse in the area. They’re caused by plaque made of fat and minerals that break off and then block blood flow.

Even though we might not always be aware we have a blood clot, it is important to have our regular physical exams and be proactive if/when warning signs occur. Blood clots are an example that movement is medicine, and we can help our blood flow by doing so. Keep a healthy body weight and eat a healthy diet and from there, the body is at least set up as best as possible to work efficiently. A healthy lifestyle always reaps benefits. We may not know until it’s too late in some cases, but don’t let preventable causes be the reason a blood clot happens.

BLOG 533 COLONOSCOPY

BLOG 533 COLONOSCOPY 

The dreaded colonoscopy that makes its way into life as we age. The colon is a key player in our digestive tract that helps remove stool and keep our fluids and electrolytes balanced. This examination of the large intestine (colon) and rectum is used to look for changes/alterations in the body that possibly have developed/evolved with age. These changes could be cancer related; therefore, the American Cancer Association (ACS) recommends having a colonoscopy beginning at age 45 and then every 10 years after.

There’s good reason to be proactive and have this screening done. The major reason is to check for colon cancer. Another major reason is to look at the intestines, especially if the person has been experiencing abdominal pain, diarrhea, and/or other digestion issues. If a person has had polyps, a colonoscopy can be useful for monitoring these and checking on changes. Polyps are a clump of cells that develop on the lining of the colon. They’re usually harmless but can turn into cancer.

The preparation for this procedure is what most people don’t look forward to. The preparation takes place the day before the exam and that means not eating sold foods, just having a liquid diet. A doctor will also recommend taking a laxative in large volume either as a pill or more commonly, in liquid form. Depending on what medications you take, you may also have to pause them the day/night before. When a colonoscopy is done, usually the person is put under sedation or anesthesia and/or given pain medication to help with discomfort. When the procedure is done, a colonoscope is put into the rectum and is long enough to reach the colon. The scope has a light, and the doctor can pump water, air, and carbon dioxide into the colon. This inflates the colon so the doctor can see into the area better. The scope also has a tiny video camera at the tip so the doctor can examine further. The doctor can also insert tools on the scope to take tissue for biopsy.

Overall, the exam takes about an hour. You do need a ride home after because of the sedation. Feeling bloated or having gas after is normal. Sometimes the first bowel movement after can have some traces of blood. The doctor will then review the results A negative result means the colonoscopy won’t need to be repeated for another 10 years unless otherwise advised. However, a positive result could mean the doctor found polyps or abnormal tissue. In more detail, if a doctor finds one or two polyps that are less than 0.4 inch (1 centimeter) in diameter, they might recommend a repeat. The doctor might recommend a colonoscopy sooner if more than two polyps are found, a very large polyp larger than 0.4-inch, differing structures/characteristics with the polyps that pose health risks, and most certainly if there are cancerous polyps.

Having a colonoscopy is a proactive approach to health. Being reactive can sometimes be too late. A day or two of discomfort is worth experiencing versus a cancer diagnosis. Ongoing digestive issues are disruptive to daily life. Getting older has its cons, but we can ease the process by being more aware and involved with what are bodies need from us.

BLOG 532 FOOD CRAVINGS

BLOG 532 FOOD CRAVINGS

Food is a constant factor in life we encounter every singe day, more than once per day. Its purpose is for the nutritional components we need for healthy bodily functions. However, cultural, environmental, and personal influences affect what food we eat. The stereotypical three meals per day, breakfast, lunch, and dinner, are not the same for everyone. Dealing with food is something we all do, but individuals vary in their relationship with food. Diets, portions, locations, availability, and mental state are contributing factors to what gets consumed. Cravings can also be a determining factor for the foods we eat. We have preferences and likes, but cravings surpass simple eating choices. The desire shifts from need to want with strong emotional pull. There is a psychology behind food cravings.

The urge to eat certain foods right away feels like a wave of hunger for that food has taken over. Cravings can pop up anytime, even if the person is full. The most common types of food people crave are those that are salty, sugary, fatty, or maybe a combination of these. Sometimes it can be said that someone is addicted to sugar or addicted to carbs. Foods can feel rewarding and stimulating the reward system of the brain. That feeling of pleasure can lead to the habit of wanting more and more of what are called “hyperpalatable” foods. These types of food release hormones including dopamine, insulin, leptin, ghrelin, and cortisol. The hormones released are related to stress, hunger, and metabolism.

The operation of appetite hormones when we normally eat is that appetite hormones glucagon-like peptide and cholecystokinin from the digestive tract and leptin from fat cells are released. These communicate feelings of fullness with the brain to stop eating. If the person has eaten in several hours, ghrelin is released from the stomach to signal hunger. The problem is that eating hyperpalatable foods too often can lead to interfering with how the brain processes these hormonal signals. Cravings may continue even when the person is full of food. Not getting enough sleep can also cause appetite hormonal imbalances. Women during their menstrual cycles can also imbalance hormones. Some medications can do this too such as antidepressants.

Another craving trigger can be advertisements. The media practically has its own department for snacks. Ads for chips, ice cream, crackers, and soda lure people in. The visual stimulates cravings. People fall victim and want instant gratification. In a world where everything is a touch to order away, it’s easy to access hyperpalatable foods quickly.

Avoiding cravings can be achieved mainly by eating healthily and often. A person’s relationship with food can be controlled by staying away from triggers, not buying hyperpalatable foods, partaking in other dopamine releasing activities that are healthy such as exercise, and of course keeping good mental health status. Hormones remain a complicated subject matter that individuals struggle with in many ways. There is not a one size fits all solution to them which means there isn’t a one size fits all solution to cravings. What remains controllable are our thoughts regarding food, so be self-aware and nourish your body with true self-care.

BLOG 530 ACUPUNCTURE

BLOG 530 ACUPUNCTURE 

The 1970s introduced the exotic and interesting field of acupuncture to the world of medicine. Yet, this needle practice has been around for thousands of years in Chinese medicine. I have me a number of clients who use this form of treatment for various reasons, but have never fully understood the pros and cons. The fitness learning fanatic in me had to do some research. 

The goal of acupuncture is to heal. This approach is very controversial in terms of scientific backing of its effectiveness. The traditional explanation for acupuncture’s effectiveness is that it modifies the flow of energy (known as qi or chi) through the body. The counter argument is that there is no scientific consensus to validate how energy can be directed. The good news is that it has worked for many regardless of convincing data. That debate may lie in Western medicine’s lack of acceptance of acupuncture. 

Acupuncture is used for several reasons. The benefits of acupuncture can extend to a wide variety of conditions, from emotional disorders (anxiety, depression) to digestive complaints (nausea, vomiting, irritable bowel syndrome). It can alleviate pain syndromes that could be injury related or associated with chronic degenerative diseases such as rheumatoid arthritis. It can help in treating neurological problems like migraines or Parkinson’s disease. Acupuncture can be a rehabilitation strategy for individuals who suffered a stroke. Respiratory conditions, including sinusitis and asthma have been relieved with acupuncture. Gynecologic disorders and infertility have helped by acupuncture. It has also proved beneficial for reducing fatigue and addictions. This needle practice aims to promote overall well-being.

There aren’t many serious complications from using acupuncture. Bleeding and soreness could occur from the points of insertion and needle manipulation. I can say that I can certainly get a tattoo but have a fear of trying this out. Sometimes traditional methods aren’t getting the job done, so acupuncture can become an option to remedy the problem. We want to be at peak performance on our fitness journeys so do what is best for your body to accomplish this. After all, science doesn’t necessarily indicate you FEEL.

BLOG 529 PREBIOTICS vs PROBIOTICS

BLOG 529 PREBIOTICS vs PROBIOTICS

These two terms sound very similar and are often used interchangeably, but they are very different and have different roles for the digestive system. Gut health is extremely important so understanding the difference can help stomach issues and better movement of food through the system.

Prebiotics are non-digestible and is the fiber of foods that doesn’t get broken down. It can be found in foods such as bananas, the skin of apples, garlic, onions, beans, as well as many other items. This fiber enters the small intestine and is fermented once it reaches the colon. Fermentation helps to increase the good type of bacteria. By boosting total fiber intake, you also boost prebiotic fiber. Prebiotics can be thought of as the fertilizer for the gut. They’re not affected by heat, cold, time, or acid. The nourish the already existing good bacteria present in the gut. They can help treat obesity, bone loss, and digestive disorders. Prebiotics also increase the concentration of calcium and magnesium in the intestine. They can help lower cholesterol too.

Probiotics are live bacteria that increase the fermentation process in foods including kefir, miso, kimchi, and other types. They can be taken in pill forms as well. Many people have found the gastrointestinal benefits of taking probiotics. It is important to understand that probiotics when taken as a supplement are only affective when they are alive. They can easily be affected by heat or stomach acid. There are hundreds of types of probiotics. They have to compete with other bad bacteria in the gut. They have been found to be effective in treating irritable bowl disease, childhood diarrhea, and other bowl infections. Probiotics also help balance out the poor effects of antibiotics. They can also help enhance healthier skin. They can help with colon irritation after surgery.

Food is the best source of prebiotics and probiotics. However, in today’s processed high sugar food, obtaining enough fiber is not always up to par. It is recommended that we consume 25-38 grams of dietary fiber and 5 to 20 grams of prebiotic fiber daily. Both prebiotics and probiotics are most effective when taken or consumed regularly. This even means taking them at the same time of day. We need proper gut health to absorb nutrients, feel comfortable after eating, and of course to process the food that we have consumed. As much as we tend to enjoy food, an upset stomach can ruin any day and make daily activities difficult.